10 Things to Do Right After Saying Yes A calm, modern roadmap for the first 10 days—equal parts practical and romantic. 1. Pause and Savor Before logi...
10 Things to Do Right After Saying Yes
A calm, modern roadmap for the first 10 days—equal parts practical and romantic.
1. Pause and Savor
Before logistics, take 24 hours to celebrate—just the two of you. A quiet dinner, a long walk, a shared journal entry. Memory first, planning second.
2. Capture the Moment
Schedule a simple engagement mini-shoot or a home session. Neutral palettes, soft light, coordinated looks—images you’ll love in 20 years.
3. Insure and Care for the Ring
Document the ring, add it to your insurance, and create a ritual of care—gentle cleaning, a safe tray by the sink, and a travel case for weekends away.
4. Share the News with Intention
Call family first. Then craft a short, elegant announcement for friends and socials—one photo, one sentence, one date to remember.
5. Set Your Vision, Not the Details
Agree on the feel: intimate or grand; city, coast, or countryside; morning light or candlelight. A shared vision will guide every choice that follows.
6. Sketch a Smart Budget
Choose three priorities—venue, photography, attire, experience—then shape the rest around them. Clarity keeps planning gracious and focused.
7. Choose a Season and Shortlist Venues
Pick a season that suits your style and guests, then build a shortlist of venues that match your aesthetic and logistics.
8. Start Your Registry the Modern Way
Open a registry that blends curated pieces with flexible cash options and affiliate rewards so your link continues to create value over time.
9. Plan an Engagement Shoot Wardrobe
Coordinate, don’t clone. Think texture, tone, and movement. Choose outfits that feel like you—polished, comfortable, and camera-ready.
10. Create a Calm Planning Ritual
Weekly 45-minute planning date: two beverages, one shared checklist, phones face-down. A beautiful wedding begins with beautiful process.